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I’ve had women tell me to chastise men to start following through more, to stop being so nice if they’re not ready for a relationship, to promise to call after having sex.I hear you, and I agree that men could stand to do hundreds of things better to improve your relationships.You want to know why your heart gets broken each time a new guy disappears?

Think about it: If he was some guy who was obsessed with trying to please you constantly in every way, you would think he was a pushover.Even a great date, filled with all sorts of grand things can’t repair all the “little moments” of neglect throughout the month.In other words, I’m trying to give her a 10,000 point night, but it actually goes down in the “relationship books” as just 1 point.This should be a relief to you since it means that you could have a tremendous positive impact on your relationship just with one night of making your guy feel amazing instead of spending countless hours doing “little things”.Here’s the problem: In the same way that women will do “little things” for guys and then be confused and frustrated when the guy isn’t smitten by all the little things she’s done for him (in the way a woman would be), guys think that one grand gesture will make up for months of neglecting “little things”. I’ve had plenty of times where I’ve let work and life in general consume all my time and attention and neglect my relationship.

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